August 2012
July 2012
I'm not good with talking about my feelings.
Feelings are just one of those things I can’t convey. I’m a hermit crab when it comes to displaying any kind of confrontation towards another person who wants to talk about my feelings. I sneak back inside. All that emotional bullshit just isn’t me. Why can’t we just have a good time? Forget everything. Why we gotta talk it through? No point in it to me. Just a waste of time. Not gonna listen to anyone but myself. If you don’t agree with me there’s the door. At that point you’re talking to a wall.
Signed, a girl who knows exactly what she wants.
let me go // logic ft. lykke li
LYKKE LI/LOGIC let me go
I'm pushing you away
and all I can think it that it’s for the best since you couldn’t treat me the best. You expect me to just get over your wrongdoings like if it’s so easy to do. Sure you can get over my little mess ups I do every once in a while. But you. You have done much worse. I sit here and continue to tell myself it’ll get better it will. But we just keep sinking. In reality we’re just drowning ourselves. I wanna be like how we were but we just can’t not after what you did. My trust is gone. Once it’s lost it’s extremely hard to get back. Yet I try and try to give you a chance so I wait for this trust to return for my guards to fall again to have what we used to have but I’m afraid it’s too late. I don’t know what to do anymore. I don’t want to let go of you yet though. I’m not ready but almost ready. I’m not sure if anyone will understand yet I don’t know what to do. I want to be happy with you but I just can’t fully let myself anymore. I’m just scared.
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- Life is not easy. – Hard work makes people lucky – it’s the stuff that brings dreams to reality. So start every morning ready to run farther than you did yesterday and fight harder than you ever have before.
- You will fail sometimes. – The faster you accept this, the faster you can get on with being brilliant. You’ll never be 100% sure it will work, but you can always be 100% sure doing nothing won’t work. So get out there and do something! Either you succeed or you learn a vital lesson. Win – Win.
- Right now, there’s a lot you don’t know. – The day you stop learning is the day you stop living. Embrace new information, think about it and use it to advance yourself.
- There may not be a tomorrow. – Not for everyone. Right now, someone on Earth is planning something for tomorrow without realizing they’re going to die today. This is sad but true. So spend your time wisely today and pause long enough to appreciate it.
- There’s a lot you can’t control. – Wasting your time, talent and emotional energy on things that are beyond your control is a recipe for frustration, misery and stagnation. Invest your energy in the things you can control.
- Information is not true knowledge. – Knowledge comes from experience. You can discuss a task a hundred times, but these discussions will only give you a philosophical understanding. You must experience a task firsthand to truly know it.
- You can’t be successful without providing value. – Don’t waste your time trying to be successful, spend your time creating value. When you’re valuable to the world around you, you will be successful.
- Someone else will always have more than you. – Whether it’s money, friends or magic beans that you’re collecting, there will always be someone who has more than you. But remember, it’s not how many you have, it’s how passionate you are about collecting them. It’s all about the journey.
- You can’t change the past. – As Maria Robinson once said, “Nobody can go back and start a new beginning, but anyone can start today and make a new ending.” You can’t change what happened, but you can change how you react to it.
- The only person who can make you happy is you. – The root of your happiness comes from your relationship with yourself. Sure external entities can have fleeting effects on your mood, but in the long run nothing matters more than how you feel about who you are on the inside.
- There will always be people who don’t like you. – You can’t be everything to everyone. No matter what you do, there will always be someone who thinks differently. So concentrate on doing what you know in your heart is right. What others think and say about you isn’t all that important. What is important is how you feel about yourself.
- You won’t always get what you want. – As Mick Jagger once said, “You can’t always get what you want, but if you try sometimes you might find you get what you need.” Look around. Appreciate the things you have right now. Many people aren’t so luckIn life, you get what you put in. – If you want love, give love. If you want friends, be friendly. If you want money, provide value. It really is this simple.
- Good friends will come and go. – Most of your high school friends won’t be a part of your college life. Most of your college friends won’t be a part of your 20-something professional life. Most of your 20-something friends won’t be there when your spouse and you bring your second child into the world. But some friends will stick. And it’s these friends – the ones who transcend time with you – who matter.
- Doing the same exact thing every day hinders self growth. – If you keep doing what you’re doing, you’ll keep getting what you’re getting. Growth happens when you change things – when you try new things – when you stretch beyond your comfort zone.
- You will never feel 100% ready for something new. – Nobody ever feels 100% ready when an opportunity arises. Because most great opportunities in life force us to grow beyond our comfort zones, which means you won’t feel totally comfortable or ready for it.
- And remember, trying to be someone else is a waste of the person you are. Strength comes from being comfortable in your own skin.
Always concentrate on how far you’ve come, rather than how far you have left to go.
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